We all have our little secrets that we'd be embarrassed if anyone found out about, but stories of crossdressers being discovered are often some of the best... both humiliating and erotic at the same time, especially in the eyes of the crossdresser. It is often the ultimate fantasy of a crossdresser to be discovered, and to have the person who discovers them decide they are going to use the crossdresser to their advantage; whether it be dressing them up for their own amusement or playing sexual games while the crossdresser is dressed up. Sometimes just anticipating being caught is a sexual rush for the crossdresser, and actually getting caught is a blissful fantasy come true.
For crossdressers who live a somewhat double life as an adult, stories of men being caught by their wives while dressed in her panties are also common. Of course, a discovery such as this most often changes the dynamic of their marital relationship... even if it's only confined to the bedroom. The wife finds that she is more in control, having something to hold over her crossdressing husband's head, and the husband often finds this to be quite erotic, deriving a great sense of pleasure by seeing his wife become more dominant in the bedroom and feeling a bit of freedom by releasing some of the control he may have once had. She may turn it into a game that is played between the two of them to enhance their sex life in the bedroom... something as simple as making him wear panties to work every day underneath his business suit keeps a sexual charge about him all day, making the bedroom time spent together later all that much more enjoyable. Of course, the extreme opposite can happen as well; the wife may decide that since her husband likes to wear panties, he should take on the other female roles of their relationship as well, and she may turn him into somewhat of a slave or maid. You never know what may happen when a crossdresser is discovered, but once it happens, you can't go back.
Different crossdressers enjoy different reactions from the people who catch them in their secret. Some enjoy being humiliated and made fun of, others would prefer to be able to share their secret life with those most intimate and closest to them, almost like a good girlfriend would. But no matter which way the chips may fall when a crossdresser is exposed, one thing is for certain... it's always an interesting story to tell.
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